Setting Up for Success
What contributes to success in your work? Doing what you love or are skilled in? Values of the company being consistent with your own? A supportive leadership and team? Flexibility in your work schedule? Having a good understanding of what’s expected of you? A positive work environment? Additional training? In considering this question, it’s important to think about the various factors that positively influence your ability to do your best work. When I think about organizations as a whole, I found the following areas especially helpful to keep in mind:
Expectations - are you clear about what is expected of you in your role/position and the methods/strategies necessary for accomplishing particular tasks?
Resources - do you have the tools needed to fulfill your responsibilities? This may vary based on the task at hand.
Support - do you have the support of those in leadership, such as a direct manager/supervisor, and other members of your team? Are you able to receive mentorship and coaching if needed?
Systems/structures - are policies/protocols in place to support your work? Are systems organized, clear, and consistent? Is your work environment conducive for the tasks that you need to complete?
Professional development/promotion - are you equipped with the necessary skills/tools to perform duties? Are there opportunities for you to utilize your strengths/abilities, grow, and advance?
Work/life challenges - are there challenges personally and/or professionally that hinder your ability to do your work? What support is needed in order to address these issues?
Does the organization where you work have a good handle on these and other areas important for you to be successful? Or would you advocate for improvements? If you answered yes to the second question it’s likely that you are not operating at your fullest potential. If you are a business owner, leader, HR professional, or other professional who influences members in your organization, how are you helping to set others up for success? It’s a huge benefit to the organization to ensure that members of your team feel set up for success.Unfortunately, the factors that can contribute to success within organizations are often given less attention than they deserve, ignored, or taken for granted.
As you ponder what contributes to your success and the success of others, it is my hope that there will be opportunities for growth individually and corporately. The success of the individuals of an organization contributes to the success of the whole organization.
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Thoughtful Responses
Have you thought about how you receive and share information? And is one (receiving or sharing) more important than the other? How we receive information can be viewed from a few angles. On one hand, we can look at the method by which information is received, whether that’s verbally, visually, or through other senses (taste, touch, smell). On the other hand, how information is processed may be unique for each individual either due to personal strengths, such as a heightened sense of hearing or smell, or what an individual has found to work best for them to learn (i.e. visual vs. auditory). The same can be said for sharing information. It is this aspect of information that I would like to explore more, especially as it relates to healthy messaging.
Both receiving and sharing information go hand in hand, particularly when working with other people. Likely what you share is based on the information that has been received. And to give an appropriate response, all information available is crucial. There are times though when what is perceived or represented is contrary to what is actually shared or intended. This may or may not be the fault of the listener or sharer. If this takes place, it is likely that there was an absence of dialogue in order to clarify information received and shared. Yet, the sharer is in a great position to give the messages that they wish to convey. How we respond, even when faced with negative experiences, can have the biggest impact. Maybe we are working with an individual who is unkind. Or someone we are close to violates our trust (or that we trust doesn’t follow through as expected). Perhaps we are experiencing a hostile work environment. Sometimes our perceptions of the words and actions of others can determine how we respond. If perceived negatively (as a negative reflection of our character, worth, or intentions), we can easily become hurt, offended, or embarrassed, to name a few reactions. But these types of experiences present an opportunity to speak to the challenges that are before us, either in support of others, ourselves, or both. I’m reminded of feedback a mentor often shared, which was that words are simply information. We get to choose what we are going to do with them. Then, I would say we can take it one step further, which is to use our words wisely, intentionally adding value to the lives of others, including growth and lasting change.
Consider how you both receive and share information and ways that you might create healthy messages in your life and the lives of others. In going back to the questions shared initially, I find that in receiving information we are able to add significant value to others as a listener but how information is shared is particularly meaningful. It has been especially important for me to encourage people and organizations to go beyond the status quo (established cultures). And for me, this is largely founded upon and influenced by giving thoughtful responses.
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Natural Gifts
What are you naturally gifted at doing? No one can teach you this. You could gain new skills in this area but otherwise could do it without formal education. It’s just what you are good at. Another way of saying something comes naturally to you is it is an ability or quality you were uniquely born with. Can you think of particular characteristics, qualities, and/or abilities that stick out to as natural gifts? Or maybe it’s something others have told you they appreciate about you.
Your unique qualities, characteristics, and/or abilities are what make you, you. There are times though when what was intended to be a help can be taken for granted or taken advantage of. We often know what it’s like to have kindness taken for weakness. In this case, the strengths we possess can begin to feel like burdens. This is never a good experience and can cause harm for all involved. In my own life, I can say I have not always recognized my natural gifts. In fact, I’m realizing more and more I almost ran away from them. Subconsciously, due to negative experiences where my strengths were taken as weaknesses, I had developed fears. So instead of taking the initiative as the leader I was purposed to be, I took the back seat. Instead of speaking up, I listened. Supporting others and having a listening ear are all wonderful qualities to have and are integral for leadership (I feel they also make me who I am today). In my case, though, there were instances when I wasn’t reaching my full potential. I was actually stunting my growth by accepting defeat. Taking the initiative and advocating for and encouraging change are two of my greatest strengths. Thus, in addition to recognizing the value you have to offer to others, it’s important to be aware of the ways in which you are not embracing all that makes you special, including what may be perceived as a weakness.
When you give a gift to someone, something amazing happens, especially if it is a gift that meets a particular need that someone has. An exchange occurs that is mutually beneficial. Not only is someone positively impacted by what you share with them but you too are positively impacted by helping others. A friend shared recently about the joy of learning from helping others. This reminded me of the significance of gift giving and the opportunity we all have to take part in sharing and receiving the best we have to offer.
Take some time to think more about the natural gifts (qualities, characteristics, and/or abilities) you possess. Consider your life experiences, what you recognize as personal strengths and passions, and the gift you may be in the lives of others.
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Healthy Messages™ helps professionals, leaders, and business owners in human services improve, craft, and implement communication within and across systems.
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