Shifting Perspectives of Influence in Leadership
When you think of leadership, what comes to mind? Perhaps you think of people who possess a formal leadership title/role. Oftentimes, we think of leaders as individuals who have a level of, or complete, authority over particular persons or tasks. In turn, we might exclude ourselves from leadership, especially if we are not “in charge”. Or maybe you do consider yourself to be a leader because you have some type of responsibility and/or accountability for others. Whatever position you might find yourself in, it’s important to be aware of your influence, because you have it! Yet, often we misuse (or even abuse) it or don’t use it to our fullest potential.
What does it mean to influence?
When we think of influence today, we might automatically think about someone considered to be an “influencer”, one who has a platform on social media and has amassed a large number of followers. When I think of influence, I think of having an intentional, positive impact. Today, unfortunately not everything we see and hear has a positive influence, let alone significant purpose. According to Merriam-Webster, influence is defined as the power or capacity of causing an effect in indirect or intangible ways; the act or power of producing an effect without apparent exertion of force or direct exercise of command; one that exerts influence; or an emanation of spiritual or moral influence. This could refer to something positive or negative. For the purpose of this writing, I am advocating for the former. On one hand, for me the definition brings out an important, yet often overlooked, aspect of leadership - “producing an effect without apparent exertion of force or direct exercise of command”. In other words, without requiring a lot of effort. We often associate leadership with power that is forceful and/or commanding. Yet, influence is largely about action or power in the absence of such purely based on the value that is being offered. This changes how we might think of influence and leadership. In my own experiences, I’ve felt most disappointed by the excess of control that can be exercised in leadership. In these cases, I think we miss the most important opportunities we have to positively influence others. Leading isn’t always about having people follow you in the sense of doing what you say. It’s as much, if not more, about setting an example that people feel would benefit them in their own lives, in addition to helping them to apply it, which could involve providing guidance or counsel. Overall, it’s about supporting and serving others. This brings up the part of the definition that I would challenge - causing an effect not only in indirect and intangible ways, but in very much direct and tangible or intentional ways. Think of those who have had a powerful impact on your life. What made what they said or did meaningful to you or brought about an intended outcome? In their book The Way of the Shepherd: Seven Secrets to Managing Productive People, Dr. Kevin Leman and Bill Pentak wrote, “What makes a shepherd a shepherd isn’t the staff or the rod; it’s the heart. What distinguishes a great leader from a mediocre one is that a great leader has a heart for his people.”
Have you considered your influence on others?
Formal and informal leaders alike might miss out on the ways they can positively and intentionally influence the people around them. Formal leaders because they confine themselves to certain expectations that their roles dictate and/or misuse or abuse their authority within and outside of their roles. And informal leaders because they doubt that they have any influence over others or any authority to make a positive change for themselves and others. And if you’re not sure how you can positively influence those around you, start by looking at the value that you bring to your family, friends, and peers. What might you do every day without thinking about it that serves, helps, or provides support to others? What passion and/or idea do you possess that could make a significant difference in someone else’s life?
I always appreciate seeing leaders who are willing to step back and let others contribute or lead, especially when it’s an area that others can influence or contribute to. Or maybe they have input or ideas that would greatly enrich the team or organization. To me, great leaders recognize their own influence in creating a culture that is open to growing or building up others and seek to facilitate this development, whether those individuals serve formally or not. Additionally, leaders show great strength and humility when they are able to defer to others’ knowledge or skills. In the book previously referenced, Leman and Pentak noted, “Your people are your greatest competitive advantage. Managers will say they agree with that, but often they merely give lip service to the idea…You need to discover their skills and interests…their goals and dreams, what motivates them…what their career ambitions and frustrations are.”
Effecting change starts with recognizing the value that you and others around you have. Growth involves building on the strengths of others while removing and guarding against the barriers and obstacles that prevent true change.
Are you aware of your influence? What message do you convey to others about their value and worth? As a leader or “influencer” (referring to the definition outlined in this writing), how do you serve others? How can you make a positive impact in the lives of others both effortlessly and with great intention?
I’d love to hear from you. Feel free to share a comment or reach out if you’d like to connect, have questions, or are interested in partnering.
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Growth & Messaging
For many people, the start of the New Year is an opportunity to think about what they want to achieve in their lives, personally and professionally. Helping people to grow personally and professionally through a focus on messaging is one goal/objective of Healthy Messages™. Thus, it seemed fitting to highlight areas of growth in this month’s writing. In particular, Healthy Messages™ is interested in the qualities/attributes that people possess and how they are able to incorporate them in the work that they do, as well as how much of the work that they do is a reflection of their values, mission or purpose, aspirations or goals, and overall messaging. This doesn’t just apply to paid employment or one’s career.
For many, their job is exactly aligned with their interests, skills, and life goals. For many others, they may be working to support themselves and their families while also pursuing what they feel is their true calling or passion, including investing time in a part-time business and/or volunteering for a particular cause. With this in mind, consider these areas of personal and professional growth and related questions:
Personal identity - what are your qualities, values, and/or interests?
Purpose/mission and/or goals - what would you like to do, support, or achieve?
Place of action - where will you utilize your qualities, pursue your interests, advocate for values, fulfill your mission or purpose, and/or achieve your goals, whether that’s at home, your place of employment, or local community, to name a few?
Your message - what do you want to convey through your words and actions in support of your values, purpose/mission, or goals and as a result of them? In other words, what’s the heart of the matter? Oftentimes we underestimate the power of communication (written, spoken, and lived out) in not only representing ourselves, organizations, or businesses, but in sharing the heart or importance of what we do, as well as in facilitating progress and clarifying our direction and next steps.
Considering areas of personal and professional growth through a focus on messaging, take some time to review the services that Healthy Messages™ offers:
Professional and Organizational Messaging Self-Service: Evaluate areas for growth and change and clarify professional and organizational messaging
Professional Development and Training: One on one or group support to navigate individual challenges around communication
Direct Communication Support: Assistance with producing content/communication
Strategic Consulting: Evaluating gaps/discrepancies between messaging and outcomes
Whole Leader Group™ - Where professionals can network, share ideas, & craft, implement, and improve healthy messages
How do you want to grow personally and professionally? What do you want to do or achieve? What messages do you want to convey? In this New Year Healthy Messages™ will be continuing to share content monthly while shifting priorities to work on more research and writing, in addition to providing supports around the services previously noted.
I’d love to hear from you. Feel free to share a comment or reach out if you’d like to connect, have questions, or are interested in partnering.
Healthy Messages™ helps professionals, leaders, and business owners in human services improve, craft, and implement communication within and across systems.
Learn more about Healthy Messages™ mission, vision, and outcomes.
Skill or Character?
There may be a variety of factors that go into why one chooses to go into a particular role (work, volunteer, or other). For many, it’s the utilization of skills, abilities, or strengths that draws them to their work. Additionally, one may feel drawn to an organization’s mission or vision. Likewise, for entrepreneurs, it’s the fulfillment of a personal purpose that motivates them to start something of their own. Yet, what maintains one’s work in their respective role(s) isn’t skill alone. Character is just as important, if not more in particular contexts.
Character as it relates to this writing can be defined as one of the attributes or features that make up and distinguish an individual; the complex of mental and ethical traits marking and often individualizing a person, group, or nation; moral excellence and firmness; or reputation (Merriam-Webster). For me, these definitions speak to that which separates individuals from others, including the choice to stay true to oneself and/or others and one’s values.
A leader or a hiring professional may not always know the breadth of qualities individuals coming on to a team possess but when considering individuals who have similar skills, the attributes or features that may set someone apart, or their character, could make the difference. As time goes on in a role, skills and/or character may become more apparent, further solidifying the value that individuals bring to an organization or mission/vision. On the other hand, challenges in skills and/or character may be more evident over time, prompting one’s position or role to be reconsidered. If skills are lacking, it is certainly possible to find out where someone’s skills may be best utilized or where additional training and support may be needed. In other words, skills can be learned or transferred. However, if someone’s character is in question, particularly as it concerns ethical decision making, morals, or reputation which negatively impacts one’s work, this could jeopardize one’s position or role, regardless of the skills that could be utilized or gained.
The character of individuals in leadership or ownership of a business may also be what sets organizations apart for individuals looking for opportunities to utilize their skills or strengths. Especially at this current time when individuals are seeking changes in the workplace, the quality of their experiences matter. It is less likely for someone to stay with an organization where they feel undervalued, overworked, and/or mistreated. What do you look for in others’ character? What do others say about your character, and what is its impact personally and professionally? Lastly, how are you building both skills and character?
I’d love to hear from you. Feel free to share a comment or reach out if you’d like to connect, have questions, or are interested in partnering.
Healthy Messages™ helps professionals, leaders, and business owners in human services improve, craft, and implement communication within and across systems.
Learn more about Healthy Messages™ mission, vision, and outcomes.